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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend of 10 months is quite a strange character, in a good way mainly as I like individuality, but some things do bother me...She won't meet me near her work in case a colleague sees us as she says she doesn't want everyone knowing her business. She says that the people she wants to know do know. I've never even met any of these ones! Is this normal behaviour?!She always seems suspicious if I go out and don't keep in contact by text, say a space of an hour with no communication. I find it quite irritating as I always say where I'm going etc. We live a long distance apart and we see each other every other weekend.We speak on the phone every night and have always ended the call with 'I love you' and 'I love you too'. The last few nights she hasn't said it unless I have and she has also seemed distant with me, i.e. short text messages where they were long and interested in me before, she is always on this obsessive health kick and keen to lose weight...I've heard that suspicion comes from guilt so could she be up to something behind my back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011): I feel like I need a little bit more information...so what I understand is that you have been dating for 10 months and have never met even one friend? Her parents? Siblings? Roommate? Have you met anybody in her life?
If this is the case, that you don't know anybody in her life, you see her two weekends out of a month, and to top it all off she keeps you a secret from her work colleagues, you should be careful, very, very careful. Something's up. I wouldn't trust her, I don't think she is being honest with you. Watch your back.
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reader, iforgot  +, writes (18 August 2011):
I totally get her reasoning. People at work are gossipy, she wants her private life to be private. I don't work with nice people, therefore I don't want them to know too much about me.
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reader, eek +, writes (18 August 2011):
 from previous experience i also had the "i dont want to be close to you near work" treatment from my ex. she was seeing her ex there behind my back. If she is with you she should be happy to be close to you any where. If she is hiding you from a group of people there is a reason for it. One which you might not like.Good luck. Let up all know how you get on i wish you all the best.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (18 August 2011):
it may come from that or she may want to seem mysterious to keep you interested the only way you will know for sure is to talk to her and ask her why she is being the way she is with you
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