A
male
age
30-35,
*ringobeaner
writes:I've talked to my friends about my girlfriend and tell them it seems like she doesn't care about me but she still wants to be with me and she tells me she does care about me but I'm just thinking she's saying that.. its been 2 months with her and nothings change more or less, and I want her to care about me more but the thing is, How do I stop caring or care less without being a jerk?I've also talked about this to her and she just listened and agreed and I asked her, what does this mean and she told me that maybe I should keep waiting a little a something will happened and I got a little upset because I also said can you please tell me why I feel this way? and she responded I'm sorry I just listen but don't really say anything. That's what got me really mad :( so I just told her goodnight and stopped talking to her. It's been two months with her and I'm just thinking it's too soon to have her show that she cares about me and it takes time, should I just wait and be patient or just end it?Thanks for reading and answering! Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 hi
be patient if you want to stay with her. i don't know what she is doing that makes you think she is not caring enough, maybe your right or maybe she just wants to take things a bit slower than you do, like you want too much too soon? 2 months is very early days just enjoy it and time will tell if things are to develop how you want them to. word of advice though; by getting angry at her for not wanting to give too much too soon, you are likely to actually drive her away. find other interests to keep you occupied and keep having a good time with your friends coz it sounds to me like you are just putting all your time and energy into pushing this relationship along at a pace that is too fast for your girlfriend
xx
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