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*herrybomb13
writes:my ex, "justin" started dating a new girl in july, they're long distance right now because she goes to school in another state. he talks to me every night from like 9 until 3 or 4 every morning. this week we've skyped twice. i recently broke up with my most recent ex, "dillon", because he cheated on me. josh always talks to me about it and tries to make sure I'm okay. He says little compliments all the time, like my eyes are so pretty and "idk why you think you're ugly because you're not at all". last night on skype, he asked what was on my mind, I said "a secret person" and he said "nothings ever secret. words hint" then i was like "okay so what am i thinking about then?" and he said "a person" then i said "okay..." then he was like "he's lucky to have you" i told him the guy doesn't have me, we're just friends and then he said "whos to say liquid is better than solid" im not sure if he knows i still love him or he's just saying random things. if he does like me, what do i do? he has a girlfriend. but he and i talk so much it feels like we're together sometimes, idk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2012): Hi I'm on like the opposite end of this scenario from you. My new boyfriend since June is long distance and I was really afraid of how much he still cared about his ex and the fact that he still had contact with her occasionally. If I'd found out he'd been talking to her all the time and skyping like you guys do, I would've been absolutely heart broken. You should stop talking to him because it won't work out well for you and it could really hurt his current girlfriend as well.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 October 2012):
 he has a girlfriend
he's an EX
you are on the rebound
you are not getting enough rest if you are staying up all night talking...
you are not a couple
and you are holding on to false hopes...
if he cheats on his gf with you who's to say he won't cheat on you later on...
you need to walk away sweetie... it's going to hurt badly but it's what's best.
you can't be friends with an ex... they are an ex for a reason.
and if you are still in love with him you can't even be friendly... it's too painful.
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