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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i am with my boyfriend for almost 2 months and we talked about having sex.when i asked him he told me he'd never before done it.i am so confused because he says he had a lot of girlfriends.how can it be possible that he never had sex before?if i ask him again won't he be angry or maybe embarassed if he's telling the truth??i want to believe him but all my friends say he's a liar because of his past.and another thing,if he really never had sex before will it be painful for him and how should i treat him since im not a virgin???
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reader, concerned88  +, writes (7 July 2008):
I think 2 months is early to talk about sex, especially when you are so young. Ask yourself, am i ready for a baby? Everytime you have sex, even with protection and birth control, you have a chance of getting pregnant. Too many young teens out there are rushing to have sex. Slow down and enjoy your childhood. Another thing, guys dont find it attractive when girls have multiple sexual experiences. Respect yourself and your body. My advice would be to wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): I suggest you should think very carefully if you want to have sex with this guy;
if you don't believe him regarding his past, if he has had sex before or not; then it sounds as if you are not to sure about this guy; if you have doubts about him; your relationship is not strong; then why consider sex?
Unlike then with women; there is no reason why the first time for a guy will be painfull;
I think you should allow him to take the lead;maybe with a little ever so polite guidance; otherwise you might affect his self confidence;
Best wishes!
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