How to discover if he really is homosexual before I become more emotionally attached to him and this relationship?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been seeing this guy for a few months now. We were introduced through friends and hit it off right away - I'm absolutely crazy about him and he treats me like a princess. But when I introduced him to my family and some of my other close friends, everyone thought he was gay. He does have some feminine qualities - he enjoys cooking, Frank Sinatra, music and theater, high fashion and the like. He's not very masculine looking (and has a higher pitch voice), but that certainly doesn't bother me. He really treats me well - he brings me flowers every weekend, has cooked romantic dinners for me, sings for me, plans fantastic dates. He's very hand-hold-ey and kissey in public, but when we're alone he hasn't tried to be sexual with me at all. And he said "I love you" about a month into the relationship and is trying to make the relationship move very quickly in an emotional sense. I'm just worried that everyone is right about him being gay. He is an investment banker, so I know having a "trophy girlfriend" is certainly beneficial to him in his career. I just want to know how to discover if he really is homosexual before I become more emotionally attached to him and this relationship. My family and friends think my boyfriend is gay

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