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If isn't interested in me anymore then why does he seem to want me in his life, stil?

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Question - (7 November 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 26-29, *reezyReezeXD writes:

Dear Cupid,

about a month ago this amazing guy broke up with me, i cheated on him 7 months before this happened, but, as a subconscious way of getting back at him for his cheating (no excuse though, it was wrong. period.)

We hurt each-other a lot, we did need a break up, but... I didn't want the break up forever...

He went through my computer and found pictures of the guy i cheated on him with, but i was only hanging out with him as a friend, my other friends were with as well, but he also found i had been flirting quite strongly with a guy who lives up in Canada (keep in mind I live in America) and he broke up with me for it all.

i can understand why, but he's playing games with me it seems, he tells me he doesn't know if he will ever want to be together but he will let me get closer to him (emotionally) which seems like a contradiction all itself.

I told him I've changed and told him i would not ever even THINK about hurting him again

I'm just so confused, people tell me if i completely blocked him from my life, he would miss me, but, my heart is refusing to let me do this... I don't know how to take it all in, i'm starting to believe he just isn't interested in me anymore... but yet he seems to want me in his life... :/ help :/

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