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writes:I'm a male, 17 years old, homeschooled. At a homeschooling meeting, I introduced myself to a new girl who appeared to be around my age. As it turns out she's 13, but actually wants me as her boyfriend, which I'm reluctant to do for obvious reasons(we're both Catholic--no chance for sex, just a casual relationship). At the same time, a friend who lives overseas has requested that I spend a year or two of college over there, as she wants a long relationship. I really want a long-term, stable relationship here; but I'd prefer to have a relationship with someone who is physically here. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Maybe wait until you meet a girl you actually care about before thinking about starting a long-term relationship. Sounds radical, I know...
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reader, Emmy-Lou  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 The high and low of it is, you can't have evrything.
You need to make a decision as to what you want, a young girl who will always be near you, but like you in regards to your religion is 'untouchable'.
Or would you like to move to be with the other girl, bearing in mind that just because your are leaving the city means you leave your religion behind.
I think it seems like a very tough decision to make, but it's one that cannot be made easily. Your going to have to sit down and have a good long hard think about what you think is best.
Hope this helps and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Boy thats a toughie . . . I really don't know what to tell you except follow your heart. Maybe take the time and write down the pros and cons of both and that may help. If you want the long term realtionship go with the girl overseas but if you wud rather have someone physicaly there go for the younger girl . but be careful with that there are laws about that . . .
Good Luck !
hope i helped . . .
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