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writes: hi. i'm sorry in advance.. this is really long cause i am pouring my heart out... please help me =[Erm, I'm kinda stuck...I think i fancy Jack. He is my best friend, but i'm not sure if he likes me back.He is my friends ex and they broke up about a month and a half ago.She has another bf, but i'm not sure if he still has feelings for her or not. Everytime i see him i get butterflys. He came over today to watch a movie..{he was supposed to come over with another male friend of mine but he had to cancel. The other male mate was actually my ex but we're really close friends now)..and as soon as i saw Jack my heart raced and i started shaking with nerves.When we hug its really nice and i love just being with him.He does bitch about his ex a lot though so i'm really not sure if he likes her or not, or if he really does hate her.Everyone says Jack and I should go out, (even his ex..does she have feelings for him? She gives me really bad evils when i am with him...) but we just say we are "married" what more do you want. (we said we got married as a joke by the way =])I'm not really sure how i fel about him meyself, all i know is that i love being with him... and thinking about kissing, even on the cheek, him gets me really excited and happy.Please help! =[Agony Aunts definatly needed here.Thanks a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I may do that cause it is his bithday on thursday =)Good idea ;)Thanks again :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): You seem to like him alot . YOu should try flirting with him and see how he reacts . If he flirts back then thats a sign to make your move . Ask him as a friend to the movies or sonthing casual . And then go form there.:)
I hope everyhtign works out for you. good luck :)
I hope I helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): It sounds like you like him a lot, so what stops you going out with him? If you guys get on really well, then you should give it a go. Maybe ask him if he's still got feelings for this girl, and if he doesnt, great! I see what you mean, he might be bitching because he likes her, but I doubt it. If he wanted to be with her, he would have made more of an effort by now honey. Nothing should get in the way of you being happy with him, so give it a shot. Flirt with him a bit, make him realise you like him, if he doesnt already know. Keep making eye contact and hug him, tell him he looks cool in a joke/casual way, or joke with him more. And if he likes you back, I'm sure he'll ask you out, or at least flirt back. Good luck :]
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