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writes:i recently met up with this guy who i hadn't seen in years i really like him and would love for something to happen between us, should i tell him how i feel. if so how should i tell him, i know it sounds silly but i've never told someone something like that. if i tell him that i am in love with him would it jepordise our friendship if he didn't feel the same way, any advice would be really helpful. Reply to this Question
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reader, guppypig +, writes (24 March 2009):
Don't tell him you love him. If you really love someone, you don't pressure them (and face it, you do want him to say it back).
The time-honored art of seduction is to get him to chase you. Flirt. Tease. Make him a little jealous. Above all, surprise him. Show that you have a sexy, fun side. If he's a normal guy, he'll be eating out of your hand in no time.
If you are determined to be cheesy, write him a love letter. And I do mean write. Not email. Not voicemail. Not typed.
Handwritten.
That will show you are willing to enter your feelings into a permanent record. It will alert him to the fact that you are serious. And it will give him time and space to carefully consider his options.
But why not just have fun? The chase is the best part of the conquest!
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