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writes:Hi, I'm needing some help, there is a girl I like but I can't seem to be able to tell her as she doesn't like me back, but if I tell her could that make her start to like me? And obviously should I tell her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Not necessarily. If you're sure she doesn't like you, then I think it's probably best that you don't say anything just because there wouldn't be much point and it could create awkwardness. However, if you think there's a chance, you should tell her. The problem is that if you tell her out of the blue, she may react quite abruptly. But sometimes, I find that once someone knows that someone likes them, they start to like that person. It sort of makes them look at that person in a different light. So although telling her wouldn't guarantee that she'll like you back, you never know what confessing your feelings could make her feel.
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Hello, Do not start telling her. It depends where you see her....college, work, leisure time? If you come out and say "I like you" this may shock her and embarrass things for you. Try to get to know her by taking interest in what she does and try to start a conversation with her. Then you will be able to see if she is interested and how she responds.If she seems uninterested or gives short answers then move on and don't bother. What you are looking for is if she is enthusiastic in what you say.
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reader, GoodDog +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Are you sure she doesn't like you back? Have you spoken to her already?
If you haven't spoken to her already, I would approach her and ask her out on a date. You've got nothing to lose. If she says 'No' then at least you will know, but she might just say 'Yes' and then just see how it goes.
Whether or not she likes you will depend on the above really.
Worth a try!
Hope it goes well for you!!
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