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writes: me and my boyfriend have recently split. (i ended it cos he wasn't making me happy). He just came out of a 3 yr relationship when we got together (about a month after they split) so I guess he was on the rebound. I still really like him so if I give him space is it possible that he will come running back to me when he's sorted his head out? we split in a very amicable way and i was very understanding. just told him it wasn't what i needed etc. we are still mates and i know he likes me still but he wants to be 'him' for now. Any thoughts? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks ladies for responding. Will keep my fingers crossed n hopefully next time i write in it will be to tell you how blissfully happy we are together!!
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reader, Befuddled1 +, writes (1 September 2008):
let him be him, and you be you, and stay in touch and see what happens.You dont have to know all the answers today, just take each day as it comes and be a good friend to him.Surrender and release and he might just come back to you.Good luck bunnyx
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reader, peakslad +, writes (1 September 2008):
yes , i have a few thoughts about this, but before i offer my advice can i just ask your approx ages and how long you were together for please?
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (1 September 2008):
Hello, I think there is every chance he will be back. It was amicable, friendly and a "good" parting. Give him his space and be prepared for the initial quiet period. Then, why not drop him a line to say hello. Hannah.
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