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writes:I'm a 14 year old female. I'm about to have sex for the first time. I'm not totally clueless about sex like I know what it is and how to do some stuff, but I'm afraid I'll be bad at it. What happens if I get lost and don't know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): oh honey the first poster was right you need to be ready for the consequences. i have had a couple of scares and it is terrifying. cause i know at 19 that im definitly not ready for a baby and im going in a long term relationship.and even if you use protection its not %100. please think about it. do you want ot risk ruining your life and your boyfriends? do you have a house, a job, can you support yourself, can your boyfriend support himself, can you take care of someone too little to do anything for itself,when it get ssick will you be able to take it to the doctor, are you ready to responsible for another life. and are you ready to deal with waht your family has to say. be kids there is time for sex later in life. grow up and get married , then have kids. let us know what you decide.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 I'm not going to give age related answers, as that is not what the question entails. If you feel ready then by all means go for it, as long as you are aware of the possible consequences. I lost my virginity at 14 and don't regret a second of it...
It will just come naturally to you. If it's your first time then it's not going to be absolutely amazing anyway. It gets better over time and with practice and as you lose nerves. People say if you're nervous then you shouldn't do it but most people are the first time in case they do mess up or the other person does not enjoy it...
Just take it naturally and let whatever comes into your head take over. Forget about theories and plans and just let yourself go. Get caught up in the moment, if you will... That's all I can say.
Hope I helped.
Wishing you the best
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Haha! When you're young you think it's all about "what do I do?" "what if I mess up?" "how can I be good at sex?" which is really stupid. You're not taking an exam. You're not doing an audition. Obviously, you are too young for sex.
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