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36-40,
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writes:I get so horny sometimes, that I'm willing to do mostly anything for sex... which is HORRIBLE. I have had sex, so its not that I'm a virgin. I know if I act on these urges, I will surely catch something. How do I resist?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): use protection - ALWAYS!
Depending on what you have in mind you may need to worry more about getting yourself in trouble.
Find someone compatible with you and enjoy them to the full!
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 You just need to find a woman in her 30's or 40's because women in this age category are as horny as an 18-yr.old man. It'll be a (sexual) match made in heaven! Just use protection!! I can't stress that enough! Have a naughty little time!
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 October 2007):
 You're a guy. Just ask women which head we think with.
It is dangerous to just go out and have sex. I was reading some statistics not too long ago, and I could not believe the number of younger people who had a variety of different STD's all the way up to AIDS. Do you think with that increase, there is something wrong with their proposed preventative process?
It's hard to resist. I would say find a steady girlfriend. That works unless she go out on you and brings something home. Remember if you can't restrain and act, do it legally. There's not too many things worse than taking advantage of females.
One thing that helps to resist is looking at women differently. I remember my mom giving a real dirty look. She's a retired nurse and believes everybody's the same, I told her their not, and when she sees a person naked at work, she'd see her job and helping. I told her "if I walked into a room of 100 naked girls, It would be like going to the buffet." She didn't like that.
When your younger you look at women as sex objects. I still do to a certain extent so it's no abnormal, women are beautiful. But what I changed in my view was the amount of respect I had for them. Looking at them first for what they could offer intellectually, before sex. So remember that respect before sex. What gets you into these problems, isn't really the sex (indirectly), it's what you're looking for. Anybody can have sex. 99.99999 percent of all people have the motor skills to pull down their pants, and possibly someone else. But it takes who they are, and what their about to be compatible with your personality.
It may take longer and holding out to find that person, but to have an actual connection with the person you are having sex with, it can be an amazing experience even after loosing your virginity.
One more tip. Keep up with what happens with women. I just read this morning about a women at a bar getting raped by an employee while getting her coat. He keeps his job, she got a restraining order. If you get so irritated, as I have, with the mistreatment that happens, you'll be damned if you go find a women without respecting her as a person first.
I hope this helps. Take care.
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