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writes:Question to all:What would make you feel better given that you still love your ex and hopes to get back with, that he/she wants to have sex with you or that he/she no longer wants to have sex with you?Coz I am confused, my ex wanted to have sex with me but I refused thinking he will just use me. On the other hand, I don't feel okay too if he doesn't want to do this things with me because it might mean he is no longer interested with me at all and doesnt find me attractive anymore. I feel rejected.Can anyone share some insights on this or how they felt?
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 Lazyguy is right, your ex is your ex for a reason. You sound very confused, take a step back and take a look at the situation. If you know he is a player and a user, don't give in to his charms, plainly. Your self-esteem is clearly not at its peak and will suffer even more if you put yourself in a position to be hurt. You are relying on this man to feel special and attractive and this is simply not right for you, it's something you may want to change and before you can enjoy any other relationship some work on self improvement must be done, to see why you are so dependent on others in order to feel a sense of self-worth.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 Yeah I got an insight. You need to look up the word "EX" in a dictionary.
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