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*elsh_drag87
writes:Hey everyone..heres my dilemma, i work with this guy and hes been pestering me to see him for months until finally i gave in. we had a few dates and 1 nite he came over to my house and we had sex (this has since happened a few times) we talk on the phone every night and txt eachother but today i found out he has a girlfriend (she also works with us) i have found out he takes dif girls home nearly every weekend and im crushed! i feel like telling his girlfriend what hes up 2 because i feel sorry for her..heres my problem after everything hes done to me i still like him but i just want to be his friend but seeing him in work everyday is making it really hard for me to seperate my emotional feelings towards him to just wanting him as a friend and tryin to get over him please help!!
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reader, welsh_drag87 +, writes (23 March 2007):
welsh_drag87 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks a lot Irish49
ive had a word with close friends and they have helped me a lot..i spoke to him in work 2day and i feel good because im trying my best to get over him and the more i think of how much of a creep he is the more its sinking in!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): Hun, this guy is a player. Now, I know you will agree when I say that when a woman has a manipulative, untrustworthy man in her life, the most important, intelligent, thing she can do, is get him the heck out of her life and keep them out.. Physically and emotionally. I don't understand this...he has blatantly cheated on his gf and has treated you badly and yet, you still like him? He has a character defect! Is it because you had sex with him? If so, you have fallen for the oldest trick in the book. For many women, sex drives the heart and many of us tolerate cads like this guy, as a result. Do the right thing for your life and just say 'goodbye' because you know exactly what this guys is all about and it's quite foolish and unrealistic to think that a man like this, who used you and many other women, will ever act differently to his normal behavior of being a jerk. Dump him..don't waste another minute. Uphold yourself to a higher standard and realize you deserve so much better. I know you have to see him every day. Try your best to be strong and ignore him. No good will come from associating yourself with a guy like this. Detach yourself..be strong. If it gets tough, then I suggest you think about changing workplaces.
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