A
female
age
41-50,
*obme
writes:Ok if you have read my last post then is my later news. Tonite I went out again to the same place as I met him last week and he showed up and not long came up to me to get drinks at the bar and bought me a new beer.He said he has been busy working overtime and I knew yeah an excuse on why he hasnt called me or anything. He said he just knew he would see me tonite and that he wasnt surprised I was there and his friends had to pull him out and I said yeah me too as well and I am busy alot too.Its like he is half interested and thats it! He bought my beer and then went to the other side and never talked to me again. I looked a few times and inside I was confused alot.If he is blowing me off then why come to me and buy me a beer? My guy friend said he thinks he is scarred of me as I am a strong headed female to the point alot.Yeah, I think I may be too strong headed for him or something as he seemed nervous around me at the bar.Sad, I really would like to get to know him alot and he is soo my type! We did text some on last Sunday and that was it.Now I have no idea what to do or not. His friends would just look at me and thats it.Now I wonder if I will see him there alot as its my bar I go too only for years. :(
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reader, muffy +, writes (23 November 2007):
 well if your interested in him then tell him.he probably bought you a drink because he wanted to be friends.or maybe hes just shy and wants you to make the first move.if you guys text then keep a good conversation going.maybe his friends dared him to buy a pretty lady a drink and he chose you.or maybe he was just showin his friends that he can buy a pretty girl a drink.guys are complicated sometimes and they can be hard to get at times.soo if you like him then tell him but dont rush things ook
i hope i helped
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