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writes:I know I asked this before, but I didn't get enough responses to get my final decision :lHello, I got out of a relationship 4 months ago. Basically, I was dumped, and lets say my ex and I have been through a lot. We used to be attached like twins, and we went through a few arguments that escalated. He broke up with me because he thought I was too controlling. But, at the time he still loved me but he wanted to drop it all because due to our distance it's hard to maintain a relationship. He has work and school. Now, after all that, I left him alone and one day he comes at me and yells at me because he thinks my friends are harassing him about me. Unfortunately, he was complaining about these ridiculous formspring questions? It's a site that anonymously asks questions to the user, and it can bring the worst out of an individual. I have no idea who did it, and I had no control over it so he put the blame on me. But, in that situation it could be anyone. So, he ends up blocking me completely unreasonably without reasoning. So, his best friend talks to me telling me it's not my fault, and told me he'll try to talk to him. Unfortunately he got mad at the both of us. Most of his friends disagree with his action. His birthday is coming up, and I still want to have that friendship we had and we haven't talked in a month. I have a photo of a street sign with his name on it. I was thinking about mailing it to him to reconcile. I also noticed that he keeps reading my blogs once in awhile, if he says he doesn't care, why does he still look at my stuff? Btw I have a blog counter that tracks IPs. Not to sound freaky or anything, but I recently discovered it.
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reader, muffy +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Well hun,distance relationships are very hard and most of the time don't work.So breaking up is probably for the better.I have a formspring and yes,they do bring out the worst in people.Your friends actions are not your fault though.You didn't have anything to do with it and your not the one whos doing it so no,it's not your fault.Honestly hun,if he's being an ass, don't even bother contacting him.Try and move on hun.It's not worth it.I hope everything works out for you.If you need anything,just let me know.
Love and kisses,
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 November 2010):
I'd say that you're maybe reading too much into his actions. You've looked at this one thing, which is him looking at your stuff, but you're kind of ignoring the fact he dumped you, blocked you, had a huge go at you and his own friends and not spoken to you in a month. Those are the things that count here, not the fact that he reads your blog. That's probably done out of some small interest in your blog. I'm a guy, and I know that if I cared about someone, I wouldn't have acted this way. I also know that not caring wouldn't stop me from looking at a blog.
He's gone, and he won't be coming back. I wouldn't even bother mailing him. His actions say that he simply has moved on.
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