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writes:My girlfriend and i had sex recently and i got her pregnant. I told her parents and they were, suprisingly, okay with it. if anything they were celebrating...but when i told my parents, they went mental, calling her a whore, calling me a horny dog...they basically locked me in my room and cut my phone line and destroyed my computer(saying that it was the gateway to hell....) i can't tell my girlfriend anything or her family... i'm afraid that her family will loose faith in me and cut me off too. It has been 4 days now, what do i do? and believe me i've tried explaining to them... their reply, as i quote, "That bitch and that sorry excuse for a family has poisoned your mind don't even try"-(both parents)
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 You clearly have a mode of communication - you are messaging dear cupid. Email or text your girlfriend explaining the situation, or post a letter. Your parents may calm down as their anger is due to disappointment. Don't expect your parents to help with the baby financially. It will be your responsibility to get a job to pay for the diapers! Be thankful that at least one set of grandparents are being supportive - since your girlfriend will be going through profound biological changes over the next few months she needs a shoulder to cry on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): they sound rather evil, but if thats not the case, i can assure you that they will eventually except it, they have no choice. just listen to them from now on, your not a kid anymore, your going to be a parent. when you realize that is when youll realize that your parents know what there talking about half the time.. which means there input on raising this child might be better then yours
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reader, Mjfbla  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Well have you tried emailing her? she has to be scared/nervous. Your parents ar being horrible if they are preventing you from taking on responsibilty. dont you go to school? If nothing else you should emial/myspace whatever her. If you can call her parents. explain the situation. just so they dont take it wrong. try telling your parents that they dont need to approve of your action but for them to keep you from being responsible and doing the right thing is an even bigger mistake on their part. Right now you dont need their blessing. You need to find a way to help ur gf...
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