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writes:Alright guys this is the situation im in right now. I met the most beautiful girl i've ever seen in my life about 11 months ago, we become real close friends, we talked, went out, etc.... while the 11 months she told me about her ex-boyfriend..at this time she told me she still loved him so to make her happy i got them going out together again. About 2 weeks later he broke up with her. i was there 24/7 tryin to comfort her and what not. i'd always tell her nice things like how beautiful she was, how she was a girl a guy would die for and what not. After awhile i started having these really strong feelings for her and as time went on, i tried to hide it from her. she had told me before how other guys found out she was single they take her out and ask her out and she say no to all of them so i didn’t want to get hurt, and kill the relationship we already had as friends. Until one day i told her...i cant remember her response only because we were drunk, but she knows what i said because the next day she asked me if what i had told her was true or not, which i told her was! so now she knows that i have real strong feelings for her and during that time, we spent so much time together going out just us 2, spending the night under the stars together and a hole lot of nice things.....but as time went on to now it seems like she doesn’t care much, and so many times i have wanted to ask her out (if you no what i mean) but i cant because im scared of rejection and ive never felt this feeling about anyone else before and now it just seems she drifting away. don’t get me wrong we still have those nice moments, but to me it seems to her its nothing. i just don’t know what to do anymore and i want her more then anything.I'd trade the world for her
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): I love the way you talk about her, and this is why I will tell you how I clearly see the situation being out of it; send her an email. Tell her exactly what you said here. This friendship will be nothing but pain for you with all these feelings included. Tell her what she means to you. Tell her just every thing. If she had the same feelings for you this is great. If not then the friendship should stop. I mean, you don't wanna wait like this until she comes and tells you about the new guy she's falling for, do you? Zee.
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