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writes: Hi, I like this guy. He comes into my work for a couple of hours a week to work with the young people. The last time he was in we really got talking and I wouldnt mind getting to know him better!! I'm not sure if he has a girlfriend though. Should I ask him if he has a girlfriend and if he says no should I ask him would he like my number so we could arrange to go for a drink or something sometime??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2006): I agree with all the advises given. it depends on what you are comfortable doing.
Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2006): i say just ask him. either that, or ask him a question that would cause him to divulge that kind of information. there's always a way to slip questions like that into casual conversation without appearing like you are interested in him. if he mentions a girl to you, just ask if that's his girlfriend or something. or if he talks about some plans he's got, ask who is going with him. eventually, it's bound to come out. or like i said, you could just go straight for the kill. why not??
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (3 August 2006):
 Hi dearie,
What i would do if i was in your situation is to establish a friendship with this guy first.You guys to me seem more like acquaintances at the moment if u havent exchanged numbers.Take a chance to be closer to him, u can ask him out for lunch or even drinks, just casual stuff. When friendship ties have been drawn u will feel more comfortable to find out all u need to know about him and in some cases he might feel very relax to let u in to his personal life without you even asking.I am sure conversations will natural lead to the his personal life and he will be sure to volunteer the information if or not he has a girlfriend.
Goodluck
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (3 August 2006):
 You should just ask him. I mean what is there to lose. If he does there is no reason why you two can't still be friends.
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