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writes:Dear CupidThan you for welcoming me, you know what I was in love with a guy for 3 months and I didnt slept with him so he cheated on me for not being sleeping with him and when I said its over he accepted it and said he cant carry on with me , I was so hurt thats why i said that and I still love him so much but he doest care about me anymore cause he didnt even call me to apologise, and im thinking about him alot almost every hour I still love him what can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much guys for your advice,Its really helping me although its going to tough because I thought I loved him, but I would try hard to stay positive It wont be easy, Thank you so much Uncle Phil,
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Cry and get over this cheater. He is lowlife and not worth you or any girl. Get on with your life and be happy you discovered the real him now, and not 3 years down the road.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): He would have cheated anyway. You are both smart AND lucky. Your sixth sense about him kept you from sleeping with him in the first place. Imagine if you *had* given into his pressure. Knowing him, he would have refused to use a condom, not pull out, AND expose you to herpes or the clap. What on earth is there to love about a guy like that? I strongly tell you to KNOCK IT OFF going for bad boys and start giving the nice guys a chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): Well, he was thinking with his little head rather than the big one, but this is what adolescent men do. Doesn't matter what age they are, if they don't get what they want they move on to where they DO get what they want.'Twas always so my love. You're better off without him but you don't see it that way at the moment because you think you love him. The thing is, you only THINK you love him. He's not worthy of your love or anyone else's. He just wants to get his end away and as far as he's concerned love doesn't enter into the equation.Forget him - he's not worth your time.Phil (Uncle, that is)
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 Instead of sitting there pining for him, ... think about what a dog he was to you. That might help you get peeved and shake the love bug off so you can move on faster.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 Be thankful you didn't have sex with him because it seems like he would have dumped you anyways. You will find Mr.Right and will stumble across a couple of frogs in your search, but eventually you will find the right one. You will heal even if right now it seems like you will never get over him, you will. Never let anyone pressure into having sex and if they do leave because of that, they have confirmed to you that they were not worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): chalk it up to a life lesson: if the guy cheats on you because you aren't having sex early on in a relationship, then he's an ass. Pick yourself back up, look in the mirror, and tell yourself that you are better than crying over a jerk. Remind yourself that you didn't sign up for a conditional relationship and move on.
P.S. He would have cheated on you whether or not you were having sex. That was just an easy excuse. At least you didn't sleep with him cuz a guy like that is probably toting around a virus anyway!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): Sounds like a jerk..sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): Sweetie, he probably never cared about you in the first place. It's a good thing you didn't have sex with him because he does not deserve you.
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