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writes:to be hinest with you and very screwed up at the moment, And also compleatly devistatedOk i really liked this guy(still do)And this is whats making me really upset, ive met him 3 times, speak to him most days on line and sometimes txt and we always seem to get on, on friday he came round to my house to do some work with my mum, and ended up sleeping together ( im glad i did sleep with him) and for the whole day got on really well,Anywayi thought to myself yeah maybe he does like meBut guess not now, lolHe told my friends bf on line that he was kinda seeing somone for the past week But what has made me upset was if he was kinda seeing someone why didnt he just say to me, instead of sleeping with me like i siad im glad i did, but wouldnt have if he had told be,Whats he scared of, yeah i do like him and though he may have liked me, but hes just upset me with him not telling me, My friend txt him saying does he want to meet and he said no sorry have a gf now Please any advice could he have liked me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Sex means something different to a woman than it does to a man. Don't be so quick to sleep with ANYONE. Sex is a high-risk endeavor, and most of the main risks are on the woman (pregnancy) and disease (on anyone who sleeps around).Personally, I won't sleep with anyone without love and an exclusive understanding. Casual sex is not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): He didn't tell you he was seeing someone because he knew he was gonna have sex with you. You said yourself you wouldn't have slept with him if you knew he was seeing someone, so why would he tell you if it meant no sex? In man land thats a huge no no!If he said he was "kinda seeing someone" it doesnt sound serious. He may literally be casually dating, and since y'all havent claimed a relationship, he doesn't see anything wrong with that. Most people date, then enter into a relationship when they only want to date one person, so maybe he hasn't reached that point. Id say if you want it to be exclusive, just say so. Worst case scenario is that he says he doesn't want to. But then if he is that adamant on dating multiple women, do you really want to be dating him?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 I'm pretty sure he didn't tell you because you might not have slept with him if you knew.
Does it matter if he likes you or not? He obviously just wanted a booty call from you, not a relationship.
Next time..... take the time to get to know the dude before you have sex. (unless you want a one-nights-stand.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): I have good news and bad news.
The bad news, he didn't tell you there was someone else because that would spoilt his chances of getting you in the sack
The good news, you said you were glad you did, so at least you don't regret it.
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