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writes: Hi,am a woman of thirty three,am madly inlove with a fourty yrs guy l want him to propose we have been together for one year dex Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): why not girl u only live once if you love him to bits and his the one you want to spend the rest of your life with then whats stopping you you go girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2006): Men think carefully before proposing, financial stability is a factor and a feeling of control. Men don't like to rush into serious commitment and you cannot add preasure by making too many suggestions for marriage. For women it's a fairy tale but men find this a real challenger.
Each individual may have different reasons for wishing to marry just make sure yours are not just fairy tale. Men need space so maybe just a light chat with easy questions about his own family (not too personal) Did he grow up in a happy home? What was it like being a child? Because depending on his answer he may reveal he's view on marriage.
You need also to share the same values and communicate all the time. He needs to know you are the woman he always wished he would marry, STRONG, CONFIDENT, RELIABLE, HONEST or find out what qualities attracted you to him in the firts place?
Be there for one another, a rerious relationship is no longer all about one person only. You become a team!
I am also waiting on my partner to propose but every day I show him the great woman in me.
Getting to know someone takes time, I need to know too if he is the right guy for me.
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reader, ..x..Lauren..x.. +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Have you thought about proposing to him perhaps? If youve been together for a year now then the worst that can happen is he says no to wait a while? Think about this.. the thing you do not want to start doing is leaving hints like catalouges opened on a wedding ring page, its innapropriate and you dont want to scare him off, Hope i have helped somehow, update me by leaving me a message :) ..x..Lauren..x..
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reader, bridget +, writes (11 April 2006):
 Hey there anon..
Im sorry but you cannot make anyone propose to you its just not the way of things, if he wanted to propose then that is different but why you want him to propose??
Is It because you are madly in love with him, then that is the right reasons but what does he think of you? You didnt mention what he thinks of yourself he might see you as a long term partner and he might see you asa married couple..
You shouldnt be worrying about him not proposing to you as you have only been together for one year, Marriages are not to be rushed they are to be planned...
Good Luck
Jacqueline
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