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*ueenMarmite96
writes:Hiiya, i really need your help. Im so confused and upset.There is this boy.. We are in the same year at school and same year. we have about 8 lessons together a week, that is out of 25. We have been pretty close for about 2 years now... but there is one problem, i have fancied him all along. Last year, we went on a school trip to a theme park.. in the morning, we held hands all day and went on all the rides. 1 problem, we were only friends. Recently this year, we have had a big fall out that lasted over a month but these last few months have been back on track and we are probably closer than ever. He knows I like him because I am one of those girls who isn't afraid what people think and always tell the truth. He has just never mentioned it to me. When we are alone.. he seems like he is so interested in me. He will tell me things he doesn't tell many people and he will hold my hand under the table in 1 or 2 lessons. But outside the classroom, when with friends.. he doesnt care. :( When around the poplular girls, he doesnt really care either... well probably only a little bit.What can I do? I love him so much and would always blow my friends off for him.. if he gave me the chance. Im so confused.. please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (12 December 2009):
Most boys his age act this way. They lack confidence to leave the pack until they are about 21. Whereas girls leave the pack and only have 2 or 3 friends by the time they are in their senior year. Also, maybe he just doesn't want people in his business because he will now need to explain things to his pack about what you are to him. If he is not pressuring you for sex then I would just enjoy the friendship. When he is with his friends then you go and hang out with your own friends. If you act all clingy and stuff then he is going to think you are just too needy and creepy. Act like you don't even care. And most important of all, don't even go to even 2nd base with him... Then for sure he will dump you for being so easy plus boast to his friends. This is normal behaviour for his age. Guys mature later than girls. You are expecting too much.
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