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writes:MODERATOR"S NOTE: Two questions combined from same asker.first off all this girl is pretty and beautiful but when i ask her out on dates she is always busy. I understand that she is in sports and a lot of more things but im starting to get the feeling that she doesnt want to go on a date with me. What should i do?there is this girl who is 3 years younger than me. I asked her out on a date but she says that she doesnt know when she is not busy. Is she just trying to avoid me or is she telling the truth? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 Unfortunately I think she is not just too busy.
When someone says they don't know when they 'll stop being busy, it means they have no intention to make time for you and if peole are interested they make time for you at the first chance they get,right ?
Also,define "busy". If she is 13 or 14, she can't have a demanding,full time job,can she ? Or be working on her college finals, or something. So, if she is " busy " because she has to wash her hair,or work on her tan, or write a fan letter to Robert Pattinson, well, technically she is busy, but again, she is not willing to make any time for you.
The fact she can't say a straight up "thanks but no thanks " ..I guess is because she is very young and does not know yet how to handle this kind of situations.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 Take it as it is, she's just busy, if she does not like you she would say "say" something. Girls are different they like a chase for some reason it has something to do with their confidence and the more guys that chase them the better. But what ever you do don't push her too much just give her a call once in a while as a friend.
I have a similar thing going but it's good. I like when I recieve a suprise message once in a while.
Good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 June 2010):
I think she's being kind to you. I don't think she's interested to be honest with you. I think she's just being kind. You've done a lot of running around after her, and all she's done is say she's busy. So step back, don't bother asking anymore and see if she comes to you
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