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writes: My boyfriend and I are both 29 years old. He is the love of my life and the best person i have been with. We both always say how Much we love each other and have stated we want a future together. We are both saving at the moment but are thinking of moving in next year after getting finances etc in order.The only problem seems to be his friends. It's a very needy group. In my opinion they aren't as independent without each other as thu should be at the age of 28 and above. They call every single weekend and going out to a bar or even at all isn't always my first priority. My boyfriend aren't always together during the week so the weekend is our time to finally relax together and be together. I am always up for hanging out if it is what is really wanted but sometimes I wish they would back off.They busy his chops and make him feel guilty which my boyfriend does. I personally feel after a certain age how can you expect anyone to be available every weekend or every other weekend. My boyfriend has trouble too it seems. If he doesn't hear from one friend for only a week he will mention it. He also says he doesn't want them to think we aren't social as if we have something to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2013): To hear from a friend is one thing but to hangout is different. I had this problem with my husband when we got married. I had a new baby, and he wouldn't give up on a weekly outings with his friends.
I understand you a 100% but at the same time how are you going to make him not to see his friends? It's a very hard task to do. All I can adviceis give him time. When he gets a little older this desire to hangout so often will evaporate by itself
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