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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:well i have been seeing this guy for a while now and we flirt alot..but sometimes when i am talkin to him, he talks about his ex.this has not happened once or twice but quite a few times. he seems happy with me but he really loved his ex, he had a three year live-in relationship with her. i feel sad when he talks about her. he doesn't really tell how much he liked her, but how they broke up etc etc.should i be worried??
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (3 August 2008):
 No I think its normal. I talk about my ex husband a lot apparantly but that is because I have known him for 25 years and he was a huge part of my life and the father of two of my children. I ended the relationship and have never once wished I hadnt. I draw experiences from my past and have no problems mentioning other exes in conversation. My husband did comment on it when we first met but its just the way I am, see Im doing it here, drawing on my own experiences!!
Your bf spent a lot of time with his ex and she was obviously a very important part of his life for a while. It may ease off just dont let jealousy show through and you may find that he will talk less and less about her when you two have new experiences to replace the ones they had together. x
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