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I went out and cheated on my girl. I want to make it work with her for my daughters sake but my feelings aren't the same anymore..

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Question - (4 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *essed up writes:

hi.I need suome advice of wot to do!I have been with my fiancee for 6 and half years and we have an 18 month old girl.Last weekend saw me go out and stay round a mates!I ended up taking a girl with me and we made love!I really dont know what to do as my feelings for my girlfriend are not wot they used to be.But i want to try and make it work with her for my daughters sake.

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A female reader, xxmissxx United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2007):

xxmissxx agony auntThis will sound harsh but i think you want to live the fun of the single life and have the security of your relationship. im afraid, you cant have both!

If your feeling different about your parnter, you may find it very hard to shake off.

So maybe you should sit and have a good hard think about what you really want to do. Maybe ask your partner for a break, you might find after that you really love your partner and go back to her, or you enjoy fooling around too much to settle down yet (which by the way theres nothing wrong with!) plenty of families survive without the parents being together, as long as your there for your daughter on a regular basis and keep your personal life away from her and her mother, you have the right to do as you like!

Good luck

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (4 September 2007):

sexi agony auntHi,

get some marriage counselling and make sure that this never happens again as this would not only end up hurting your gf but also your daughter.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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