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writes:I need some help. yesterday i watched in horror as the love of my life flew out to australia. We were together for 3 years, and we just drifted apart, with her at uni and me starting a new job. i am older than her, and i think to be honest she just wanted to go out and have more fun, which she has done. We both had a good time being apart, and were still very close. however, a few weeks ago, i found out she was leaving, she told me when she was drunk but i put it down to drink talking as she used to say she was going to go all the time when she was drunk, then it was confirmed by her brother, who also told me that she wanted me to go with her, and that she didn't want to say this to me because she thought i was happy single! so we talked and told each other how we really feel, but that she is still going to where she calls home (australia) because she waited long enough for me, as she was meant to be going but met me and didn't go. so at her leaving party i tried again and we were both upset, so i went to the airport yesterday to try and talk to her again, and to my horror she had boarded her flight... i watched as the plane took off and i have never felt so much pain in all my life. what do i do? do i risk it all and follow her?? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): WOW... What a story, what a romance. You did it. CONGRATULATIONS to both of you... Brilliant.... I'm so happy for you both. Who said true love was dead. Thanks so much for the update. Good luck and blessings. Whosoever seeks, then he will find.... Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): I would like to thank those of you who wrote to me. i am so happy. i have arrived in australia and proposed to her and she has accepted. we have agreed that i will go back to scotland and sort out the sale of my place and set myself with a job out here. so once again thanks, i will never forget the look on her face for as long as i live.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): Yippie... the chase is afoot. Bon Voyage, and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008): my flight is booked, i leave in 2 days. i am going to surprise her. will let u know how i go! thanks
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reader, Midge +, writes (9 July 2008):
 Trust me, you only get one shot at true love! If you think this is it, and you love this girl.........why the hell are you listening to us gabbering on.........why arent you on a plane already???????
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): OMG!!! Go!!! Follow her. You only live once so take the chances you get, and this is def. a chance to be with the one you love. Go... im sure she will be excited to see you.
Best of Luck!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): I agree, go for it. Sounds like a case of untold feelings, and the most important thing is, she actually wanted you to go with her, from what you have said, it is just because of an odd turn of events that stopped you actually going, so surprise her and turn up anyway :) Good luck dude, get your love.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (9 July 2008):
 Honey! You only get one life. If you can get hold of her and she still wants you, then go. What do you have to lose, you can always come back. If you dont you will always wonder what could have been.
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