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anonymous
writes:Hello there, I have a big problem. I fell absolutely in love with a guy that I'd never met but its not like a long distance thing we live just minutes away, anyways we took things reallllly slow just because he was so different from any other guy that i'd ever liked. We weren't even going out but we both knew we loved each other and showed it. We talked every single day and i just never imagined my life a day without him... Everything was so perfect and just days before something horrible happened, he finally asked me out!! I was skeptical to say yes, i didn't want to ruin our friendship if things didn't work out, but i just said yes anyways. So there it was we were finally going out and then he asked me for a picture... I wasnt exactly the girl he'd seen a picture of the day we 1st met.. but i just sent it anyways. After hours of explaining that that was actually me he didnt seem mad, he called said goodnight and that was that.... He hasnt talked to me since. I texted him like 5 days after nothing and he said that that wasn't gonna be it between us, that he was just upset. But its been 22 long horrible days now. I truly do love him with everything i have, i cant do this any longer, i dont know what to do at all and i need some serious help... PLEASE :((
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (10 September 2009):
 Hi!
I am sorry to say this, but I think there is not a lot to do. The truth is there could be a number of reasons why he hasn't called, maybe he is frustrated, angry or whatever. The fact remains that he has decided to step back from what you two shared and that is a choice we all have, and he made.
You could either decide to wait a little longer to see if he comes back or start working on moving on. Even if he decides to comeback you should ask yourself if this is the kind of uncertainty you want in a relationship.
Regarding the whole "I can't live without him" phase we ALL go trough, you've already lived through 22 days without his companionship, and the first days are usually the worse. Breathe, relax and try to get busy with something else... there is ALWAYS light at the other side of the tunnel... you just need to resist through the dark part of it!
Best of lucks!
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