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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and our planning to move in together. We are still in college, and marriage is no where coming soon ( i dont want it too). I love him very much, and I know we have had our ups and our downs already. We sleep together almost every night anyway, whether I go to his dorm or he comes to mine. But we still have our own rooms. I was asking is it ok, for me to move in with him? Or is it too soon? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): No one can really answer for you if its too soon, that has to be up to you and your guy. If you feel ready, then go for it. If you are questioning if its too soon, then maybe you aren't ready. Be prepared for some possible "rude awakenings" though..you don't really know someone till you live with them!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 October 2008):
 If you do move in together make sure you keep your finances separate. No combined bank accounts or combined purchases of big ticket items.
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (14 October 2008):
 In my opinion, I do not think its too soon to move in together. I think it depends more on the couple and what they want out of the relationship but at least a year together is probably best. If you two are spending about every night together, thats definately a sign that you two should go ahead with moving in together. Dont be suprised though, there will be quiete a difference between "spending the night every night" and living together. That will bring new challenges to the relationship, Im sure!
Good Luck!
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