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writes: What am I to do?I met a guy in a club over a month ago. We just clicked and talked all night. We have been seeing one another most weekends since. My friends live in the town where we met so I am there quite a lot staying with my friends at weekends. We have slept in a bed together a couple of times but never done anything more than kiss as I like him I didn't want to rush things. When we have been out he has been very affectionate and all over me, which I must admit, I have not exactly reciprocated so much just because I was unsure about how much I liked him.I am 26, he is 24. He told my friend he really liked me and shortly after this I realised I do really like him too. Now I have realised this and want to see him more he has not been as keen as he was which has really upset me.Shall I just tell him I like him and would want to see him again soon??Thank u xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Yes I think you should tell him that you want to see him again. But if he wants this relationship to go at a pace that your not comfatable with then tell him. If he doesnt follow it, then hes obviosuly not the right guy for you.
Talk to him how upset you ar with the fact he used to be all affectionate and now hes trailed off with no excuse.
Theres also the reason that maybe he isnt ready for a proper reltionship. He may like you a lot, but he has to get to know you first and he may be getting the idea that you want the both of you to get serious by taking things slow. He might just want to have fun and get to know you first.
Try calling him and offering a night out on the town with him and go to a club and have fun.
He will eventually decide if he wants to settle down for a proper relationship with you
Good luck xxxxxxx
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