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writes: My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm several times. Do any of you have advice for her. I don't really know what it is. I'm relaxed and it felt great. It felt like I was right on the edge but she just couldn't bring all the way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I was able to spend some time with her yesterday and she did actually touch me. But we were sitting beside each other and i was touching her too so it wasn't really possible for her to use both hands. This time I didn't even get as close but I suspect that's because she was unable to focus on what she was doing and I was more focused on what i was doing than how it felt.
FYI - She doesn't want to give oral. So unless you have any suggestions about how i could convince her that's not gonna happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): Have her switch from hand job to oral. Or just stick to the one you like best.
I do both with my boyfriend, I use my hand while performing oral sex. He loves it.
Maybe also tell her to relax a bit? Like, maybe try to get into it more (that way she doesn't get tired?). I think after she makes you orgasm and sees what she is capable of doing she'll enjoy it a lot more and not get so tired.
Worked with me ;-)
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