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writes:Hey! Ok well you might have read some of my other questions which were all about my teacher who i love and my last one was when he was leaving. But he's left to go to another school now and everyone said it will get better over time but it's been 4 months and 3 days exactly since he left (btw the day he was leaving i spoke to him and just basically said i would miss him and that he had been a great teacher)and it hasn't got better over time i still love him the way i loved him the day i walked away!!I hate having to go to school cause all the memories come flooding back and it upsets me so much.I miss him so much,he's always im my mind and i can't stop thinking about him!People are still talking about it behind my back and i wish it would all just go away!But i know it won't! I just don't know how to move on and forget about him!Could you please give me some advice on how to get on with my life? It would be so helpful if you could! Btw i'm 13! Thanks! Angels Eyes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): Can you please check this article out?Its real cool.
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reader, Angels Eyes +, writes (4 November 2008):
Angels Eyes is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey!!
I really need some more help and opinions!!I falling into unhappiness again because of this and it's really getting me down!PLease give me all the help you can!
xxxANGELSEYESxxxx
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reader, Angels Eyes +, writes (1 October 2008):
Angels Eyes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCan i just say he already knew about my feelings for him!
Angels Eyes
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): hey, i was in the same position as u once, i was 15. its easy for someone [as above] to say "you don't know what love is" but thats because you're young so some people will just assume it's just a crush or something. maybe it was just a deep infatuation, maybe it was love, i don't know because i don't know exactly how u feel.
but i know i was in love with my teacher and yeah it hurt like hell when he left. it took me nearly 2 years to get over it :$
its gonna be soo hard to get over him i know, and i know everyone's saying this but its true: it will get better over time. i know that may not seem very helpful right now when you're hurting so badly but it's something to hold on to, that u won't feel like this forever.
its hard to move on but my advice would be to not be afraid of meeting new people and fancying other guys, it'll be easier to get over your teacher if you like someone else. also, spend time with your friends, just do as much to prevent u from dwelling on memories that make u hurt.
umm i don't know what else to say lol i hope i was somewhat helpful, but yeah good luck, it's not going to be an easy ride but one day this will all pass. take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): You're 13, and it's an infatuation. You will eventually get over it, but for now I think you really need to tell yourself that nothing could ever have happened between you. Not only was he a grown man, but one in a position of power. If anything had ever happened, then he would not only be in trouble for having a relationship with a minor, but also for having a relationship with a pupil. Have a think about it, him actually leaving is something which could actually have saved you a lot of embarrassment - what if he found out about your feelings for him?
Just try and focus on your schoolwork, and guys your own age, I promise that with time, you'll get over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): you dont know what love is, sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): I still think about my professor and its almost been two years. I write in my diary, and sometimes I pretend he's holding me. Just hold onto your memories.
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