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writes: 10 months ago i was raped while walking through the park with a friend of mine, i told my mum at the time and the police where involved and it kind of got sorted the man got 6 months and it kind of got forgot but we had to go ive a statement over something that had happened with a young boy a few weeks ago and since i went to the police people have started finding out what happened to me. i didnt want anyone knowing about it because i feel ashamed but now nearly all my school knows, when i walk down the corridoor i see people staring at me and looking each other as if to say "thats her, thats her" turning their noses up at me and laughng at me. staring at me and glaring. making me feel really unsafe and unsecure they make me feel so small, why do they do this? was it my fault?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): Please dont blame yourself, it wasnt your fault. Have a word with the headteacher at your school and let them know exactly what is happening. This is not satisfactory at all. Kids are cruel things but they are also forgetful so i am sure this is a few days wonder and it will be forgetten about in the future. You have done marvellous to of come through it, well done. I am sending you hugs and hope you can be strong and battle through this.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Rape is never your fault. It's a sick malicious act that someone did to you. The laws there must not be too strong. 6 months seems like hardly any time for a crime like this.
I would recommend finding a support group. It helps to share with others who experienced the same thing. Just because the kids as school are extremely rude. Keep your head held high and be strong for yourself. You're going through enough without having to worry about those people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): Sorry sweetie that you had to go through that terrrible ordeal.It wasan't your fault, and please don't feel like they are laughig at you, they may feel bad for you. Don't worry about people and what they think. There will always be negative and positive people in this world. If you worry what people may think, then you will drive yourself crazy.I am pretty sure that these people at school just feels bad for you that's all.You are young and full of life and just try to stay postive and I wish you happiness and all success in life.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Oh sweatheart its not your fault AT ALL.
Everyone takes thing in different ways so ignore the people who do that to you. They just don't understand.
Just know to yourself that you have done a good thing getting that guy done and personally I am so proud of you!
Ignore them people at school and just be proud of yourself babe. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): It wasnt your fault. Neva think that it was. Pweople dnt stare at u because they are ahamed of u, they stare because they feel bad for you. It is the worse thing to happen to a woman. U shuld neva feel thaty it is ur fault, EVA!!! just hold ur head up high, u shuld be proud, u told, which many bdo not hav the courge to do. I dnt know if i wuld hav, so im certainly proud of u. Good luckxxx
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