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reader, Spaces1965 +, writes (14 November 2008):
Spaces1965 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust an update! We moved in together on September 1st. I have never been more in love. Having a blast and talking about marriage but will wait a while on that!
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reader, Serinity +, writes (18 March 2008):
Good! I am so happy for you. Glad I could help!
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reader, Spaces1965 +, writes (17 March 2008):
Spaces1965 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Serinity. I liked your answer best. Whatever happened it sure did work! We are having a blast. He has assured me no more dropping off the face of the earth.
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reader, Serinity +, writes (13 March 2008):
Wonderful, congratulations!!! I think I recommended not giving up too soon. You go girl!
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reader, Spaces1965 +, writes (12 March 2008):
Spaces1965 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I just wanted to update you all that I heard from him again about a week after I asked for your advice. We had our first date a couple weeks ago after logging tons of hours talking on the phone. When we met the sparks flew and we have been an item ever since. I have never felt this way about any one. I can truly be myself with this man and we are constantly laughing. I am so happy that he came back into my life. Let's see if he stays...lol
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reader, Spaces1965 +, writes (11 February 2008):
Spaces1965 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone...I still haven't heard anything..I am officialy moving on!!
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reader, Spaces1965 +, writes (11 February 2008):
Spaces1965 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone..still no sign of him so I am moving on.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (1 February 2008):
Hi,
sure he may have lost his job, but given his history of contact with you my best bet is he is playing games with you.
Online dating sites are full of all sorts of social misfits, you have to be very careful.
Put this one down to bad experience and move on.
good luck.
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reader, Serinity +, writes (31 January 2008):
I would give it a little bit of time before you give up. If he really did lose his job then that could be why he's not available right now. He's probably an emotional wreck with the fear of finding a new job and loss of income and probably feeling somewhat inadequate. I wouldn't constantly ring him but maybe send him a short e-mail to let him know that you are still available if he wants to talk about it and that you miss his conversations. If he doesn't answer you in about 2 weeks you might consider trying to become unattached. Good luck!
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