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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I'm a teen girl and I was dumped by my boyfriend a few months ago, he moved on to one of my closest friends straight away and though that still hurts I know I dont love him any more. My main issue is that since then, I haven't found myself attracted to ANY guys, even celebs that I used to drool over. I'm really confused and some mornings I just wake up and nothing interests me at all, like my whole life's gone bland. There is this one guy, he's friends with a close friend of mine and we've met a few times, he's the only guy I've felt in any way attracted to (other than my ex) and he can make me laugh, but he's not interested. I just feel so confused and scared because I'm not sure what to do anymore, please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2012): Hi I'm the one who wrote this question, thank you for your advice it does make a lot of sense thank you! :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 I think you are scared to put yourself out there again because you got hurt in the past. This is normal to feel like this, but you developed some sort of reaction from this other guy so that shows you that it is not completely gone. It is just going to take you a little longer now to become attracted to someone. Don't let this put you off talking to other guys. Once you take time to get to know someone feelings will start to develop so don't worry you are just maturing and allowing yourself to get to know someone first before you become attracted to them.
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