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writes:My ex said to me he misses talking to me most nights. What does he mean by this? Does he still have feelings for me? We talk pretty much everyday because we're friends now. The other night he said to me he's got a soft spot for me and how he needs me. Was he just being friendly or what? He asked me "how do you know I still ain't got feelings for you?" I said he's over me but he said about having a soft spot for me in his heart. He said to me if I was to put my head on his chest, I'd hear his heart beating faster. I said to him in a friendly way I love him and then he replied "love you more". Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 January 2012):
 Okay him having a girlfriend changes things a bit. Look the best way to find out what he means is to just ask him straight out what it is he wants from you, it is the only way you are going to find out.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (16 January 2012):
To be honest it sounds to me like he still wants to be with you. So if you do not want to get back with him then make that clear to him so he knows where he stands.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNotDoneYet - why would you say you love him? You don't even know him lol. However, he's got a girlfriend. So nothing can happen between us. Why does he say all these things if he's got a girlfriend? :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't want him back. But do you think he has feelings for me? Or is he just being nice and friendly? Would you say to a friend that you have a soft spot for them? :S
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (16 January 2012):
It sounds to me like you two should be together. Ask him what he meant, that's the only way you will know. If you want him back then ask him would it be an option. Good luck.
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