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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 October 2014):
 You need to be pleased he did not have you arrested for assault.
Be a lady.
Be an adult
get your things (or send a friend to do it for you if you can't bear being an adult)
you owe him an apology.
IF you have an alcohol problem (this was not a once a year drunk sort of thing) then you also owe yourself a consideration of cutting back or quitting drinking.
WHY does society in general think women abusers have a pass???
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2014): take your stuff and maybe apologise for what you had done.
But lets be fair at his place of work , where he is a director he will known as the director with the girlfriend who punched him and knocked him over in front of his own work colleges while drunk..
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 October 2014):
 Drunkenly punching someone is a dealbreaker. Drunkenly punching someone in front of their coworkers is something you should consider seeking help for, either for your drinking or for anger management or both. That is not acceptable behavior for anyone. You're lucky he's not pressing charges!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2014): If he'd hit you, you'd be running for the hills and calling the police.
Go quietly and cross your fingers he doesn't call the police on you.
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reader, Mark1978  +, writes (26 October 2014):
 Why would your partner put up with physical abuse from you? When men hit women they are seen as dispicable animals who should be locked up but when a women hits men its often perceived differently but it should not be.
Get your stuff and leave this man alone. You should be ashamed of yourself and learn to act with more dignity and self control in future.
Mark
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (26 October 2014):
 Go and collect your things, with whatever grace you can muster up. No arguing or trying to patch things up and definitely no scene.
Then take some time to think about your behaviour and make a decision to either moderate your alcohol consumption, like an adult, or stop drinking entirely.
I don't think what you did was funny at all. It was boorish, trashy and criminal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2014): It's the lack if repentance/ resolution to change in your post that speaks volumes.
Would you stay in a relationship with someone who was violent with you? In front of your colleagues to make it worse? And laughed?
Ofcourse you wouldn't.
What you should do is apologise and leave him alone as requested. Then take measures to make sure you don't hurt other people.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 October 2014):
 You need to go get your stuff and get out of his life. Being drunk is never an excuse for unsociable behaviour OR violence.
The damage you have done to this man goes way beyond punching him ... you need to get out of his life.
It would probably be a good idea for you to seriously consider the ramifications of your drunken behaviour and make some life changes.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (25 October 2014):
 Pack up and move on in your life..Next time try to control yourself.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 October 2014):
 GET your thing from his place and move on.
I'm sorry I do not find it funny to punch someone in the face and then laugh at it. Had HE been the one punching you, HE would be in jail. Being drunk is no excuse.
YOU messed this up and I don't think there is anything you can do to make him change his mind.
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