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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've been nasty and cruel to my ex boyfriend who broke up with me 4 weeks ago but we have continued seeing other and it felt like we were still a couple but he kept stressing it was over even though he went out of his way to see me. it all came to a blow yesterday, i spent sat night with him and Sunday we exchanged a lot of very harsh words i admit i was very abusive, he text me saying i will never hear from him ever again and i am devastated i don't know what to do. will he ever get in touch has he deleted me for good. i am so distressed i cant work or do anything. i got so angry as when i called hm i i could hear girls in the background, he was drunk and clearly not upset by whats been going on over the last few weeks, he kept saying i confused him but his last words were he'll never contact me again and i sent one back saying we are done, but i really didn't mean it. whats he thinking, is he thinking about this I'm going out of my mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): there are moments when love is like a hurricane and suddenly all this passion and energy which could be spent shagging and such is spent arguing and sometimes a lot of words are said which aren't truly meant (in most cases they aren't). The thing is after a hurricane everything is destroyed and needs to be rebuilt only you can't do that straight away, the dust has to settle. After a big argument where strong words are used you also have to let it settle and then rebuild.
so how to do this. Wait a bit longer. go and see him, apologise for what you said and you are sorry.
You only get one chance at this i would guess, so try and find the right words for the two of you. Normally a statement of how bad you were is better than saying how bad he was...
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