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writes: We had a long distance relationship for 5 months, things were going well, then suddenly he accused me of being unfaithfull, still refuse to give any reasons where and why, however he is back in the country, we have not seen each other, but are in contact daily, he still claims he loves me, he is keeping himself busy to try and forget me.I have also got questions to him, certain claims and promises he made, I discover seem to be untrue, and the promises unfullfilled.yet, he has many excuses for that such as ...Secret Servive and etc.I have meet somebody else, very nice kind person, we have been in contact daily, just as good friends, untill recently, we got more involved. However, since call the other guy mr A,supposedly arrived back in the country, mr B has been not himself. Mr A told me he did "things" but refuse to give me detail. I am wiondering if mr A has giot something to do with the strange behaviour of mr B. If so why? As mr B never asked me if there was anybody else, and we did not commit to each other, in fact mr B suggested we take it slow and stay friends, however mr A now also seems unsure and confused.What do you think I should do?Post them both? The one I really cared for, the other was a good "friend" but had potential to develop into more?
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (8 June 2008):
well first off, long distance relationships have a hard time of working out... sad but true. so already mr.b is in the lead. then mr.a is accusing you of cheating, which could mean mr.a was cheating. so theres another point for mr.b, also mr.a wont tell you where he is. another point for mr.b. i understand that you have stronger feelings for mr.a but it seems like hes kinda failing you right now, so i say take it slow with mr.b
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