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writes:i have been with my boyfriend 6 yrs now and we have the most adorable son who is 4. the thing is bout yr ago my boyfriend cheated on me with some one i no, i didnt take it so wel but after abit i forgave him(only coz i love him) but i wil neva forget, which i thought, but aftre time past i sort of was forgetting it until recently, my boyfriend has been hanging around with his cousin and they both go out and do stuff, they go for a drive n that, my boyfriend isnt comin in til ealry hours in the mornin and waking me up and causing a arugement for no reason. in the morning he wil say e is sorry, he has just came back from v festival, and his attuide towards me is totaly different he doesnt want to kiss me only when i ask for one, he has been back a week and he as been out bout 4 times and not comin in til late, and now he has gone wit is cousin and his cousins ex girlfriend and her mate and her boyfriend to a cider farm. he didnt even ask me if i wanted to go. sometimes i cry to my self and feel so low at the min i dont no if it is a trust issue or a jelous one. i dont no but i wish i can tell him how i feel but he wont listern the only way i can tel him is write it down but when i come to write the letter i am stuck i dont no what to put or where to start, please help i dont have no one to talk to so all my problems and feelings are bottling up inside me and i dont think i can take no more! Tara
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): First off, I'd say you deserve so much better.If you're going to write a letter, start with telling him why you are writing. (coming from a writer) Let your words flow, and hold nothing back. No matter how ashamed or silly you feel saying it. Tell him how much (If you do) you want to fix this, and hope he wants the same.For the sake of you and your son, I hope it all works out. Hope this helps.
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