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*irgocrazy
writes:Ok so I known this guy for over 2 years we hangout everyday hold hands sometimes makeout, he tells me he has feelings for me but he says that he's too young to have something serious and he just wants to have fun for now um but he still goes and dates other girls he doesn't even tell me any it cuz he knows if he does I'm going to leave I've left before and he always came back into my life, and he tells me that he doesn't want to lose me as a friend. I have met all his friends and we enjoy each others company. We have a long history and have been through alot and he says he cares abt me also. He's always talking abt the future always making plans with me. I'm just not sure y does he keep coming back if I don't mean anything to him and with me I have alot of drama and it's not like he doesn't have other girls so what's one less for him?? Idk I just don't know wat to he's the first guy I have alot of feelings towards and want to work things out and have him in my life Reply to this Question
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (26 May 2010):
 I think only you can be the judge of that. Stay in his life or not, that's purely your own choice. I suggest you examine all the pros and cons and make your decision based upon which is the the more weighted.
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reader, virgocrazy +, writes (26 May 2010):
virgocrazy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk but should I stay in his life. Since he does want me too be.... I just don't know and he does always talk abt the future telling me that we might get married and other stuff
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (26 May 2010):
This is a classic case of: What they say versus what they mean, honey. I think you're dealing with an immature guy who is a member of the flavor-of-the-week club. I say take him at his word, he's telling you the truth with the he's not ready for something serious.
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