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writes: I went out with this boy for a week and then he broke up with me. He said it was because he didn't think it will work, but I think if he likes me a lot - which he says he does - it will work. I dream about him and can't stop thinking about him all the time. He has asked me back out but I'm not sure what to do. I then thought last night "why not?" so I text him and said "will you go out with me" but he hasn't answered and don't answer to any of my texts. He does call me sometimes. When I see him he calls me over and I do go, but he seems to close up. What do you think is wrong? Should I ring him? Does he not like me anymore? I'm in crisis because I really like him. When I see him with other girls I get jealous. hellpppp pleaseeeeee
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (1 August 2006):
 I think you have your answer; you just don't want to see it.
This guy's not interested. He says he "likes" you -- probably as a friend -- but he doesn't respond to your text (that was a bit rude of him, btw). He's already told you he didn't think it would work out. When you go and talk to him, he doesn't act like a boy who wants more than friendship.
It's probably for the best if you realise that he's as new to dating as you are and a bit awkward about telling you directly, but he doesn't feel that you two work romantically. That's not your fault. In fact, that happens in about 99.9% of dating relationships, otherwise you'd only ever date one person in your whole life, and you'd end up with that person until you died!
If you want to continue to be friends with him, it's probably a good idea to remind yourself when you start feeling romantic, that he's tried it and isn't interested. Don't feel jealous, because he's not your boyfriend. If you keep asking him out, you're going to alienate him and make him feel like you're stalking him. Be friendly, be light, be fun, and accept that not every boy is a match for every girl.
There'll be other guys. And you'll get over this one sooner if you be realistic with yourself and face facts.
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