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writes:I'm not sure if my post went through earlier but here goes. In the past iv been taken for a ride, I alsways fall hard for a guy I like an at the end they either lie cheat or just stay away or just let friends talk thr head over. I'm single for two years but have trust issues , I'm currently seeing this local celeb an I like him soo very much but thr are times I just have this other feeling that he is just that into me, even tho he is always busy an stuff but atleast like text me so now an then to keep convo. Ok he does make time for me when he can an I'm happy with that but when he is away an we chat it never last for more than 5mins cos his rplies will be like so short an stuff. A few days ago he was by me an I accidentally read a msg. When I asked him bout it he said it was his producer an stuff an I read wrong. Ever since he didn really chat to me , I'm not sure if its just him being busy or him just keeping his distance cos I'm sure he broke up with his ex cos she didn trust him... I want to trust again but don't know how to make that step in life. Sometimes I feel like I'm a door mat cos I just go with the flow , all scared ill loose the person in the process whereas in the end I do... Pls help!!
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reader, Hera23 +, writes (19 June 2011):
Hera23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm so grateful that there are people that actually cares an gives the advice, I really appreciate it but by just reading your advice like let me kinda think bout it but when I wana make that change its so hard cos I'm not sure how to go about an stuff... My brother-in-law also spoke to me last night..telling me how attractive I am but should stop letting the guys hurt me cos he has seen many times I try to make change but its hard...there is more that trust issues with me...I allow guys to talk my head over I can't say no, I can't break some one elses heart!
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