A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Haay, Im 16; And My Boyfriend is 14;He Recently found out that ive gone out with something like 3 chicks before him and that im Bi;He is pressuring me to hook up with a chick, btu i just want to be with him; He Knows i still have feelings for my last girlsfriend; and he wants me to kiss her; i'm not sure if i should do it or not. He wants me to go into details about my love and sex life with past relationships, but i just wanna spend my time thinking about him; not who didnt make it into my future, + We Both Have A Temper so we Get Mad Easily; i really am in a bit of a muddle right now. and i dont know what to do :( Replies are So Helpful and I Thank You All. xx
View related questions:
sex life Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Kama  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Glad you broke up - good for you
A
female
reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 As sad as a break up is, im am so happy that you got this situation sorted and i believe that you have done the best thing as you are clearly better than him!!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaaay guys; we spoke and broke up. He told me he was only using me for sex and girl on girl. Mmm im upset up, happy were not together.
...............................
A
female
reader, BunnyTee  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Of the few women I know who are lesbian or bi, ALL of them hold to one rule very hard and that is they don't put on performances for men. Though you didn't specify that your b/f is actually requesting that you do these things so he can watch, I'm fairly certain that it's what you mean. Tell him to get over it, like yesterday. You're not a circus act and the things that occurred between you and your ex's remain between you and them. It's only common courtesy to not kiss and tell, anyway. It's rude, disrespectful, and selfish of your b/f to put you in this predicament.
...............................
A
male
reader, Kama +, writes (10 June 2010):
Neither of you should get mad. That's the worst thing to do. It's not healthy to involve more than one person in your sex life, especially as young as you are. I have only seen people twice your age who work very hard have open relationships work. You need to focus on one partner at a time, and to take things slow. If he doesn't want to do that, find someone else to focus on. You are very young. Even adults don't understand sex -- but your impulse to focus on one person is good and natural. Your boyfriend is turned on thinking of you with other girls; but what about your emotional life together? Trust yourself.
...............................
A
female
reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (10 June 2010):
Hey there, it is wrong for this guy to try and get you to talk about personal details of past relationships, that are not only personal to you but also the other people in those relationships. NO you should not kiss that girl, she has feelings and is not there for this boys entertainment and speaking of him i am sorry but he does not sound like a nice person, it sounds to me that he may be using you for his own means, eg hearing about girl on girl relationship or trying to pressure you into doing things. I think you should think long and hard about this relationship. please tell me how this goes. x
...............................
|
