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writes:Hey. I've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He's soo gentlemanly and that's one of the many things I like about him. He can be quite shy and he always waits for me to make the first move and kiss him first. I want to take things to the next stage with him and have sex.. but, I'm a virgin and he just assumed that I wasn't (he's not). I'm not sure how I should approach this? Should I tell him or not, and just hope he doesn't notice.. but he obviously will :S xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): TELL HIM!!! He seems like a decent bloke, I'm sure he'd rather know first so he can erm... sort of be more "showing the way" type of attitude and not assume you know what you are doing!! TELL HIM!!! Please please please. i once slept with a guy who was a virgin when i wasnt and i was gutted that he never told me before, only afterwards. He will cherish you all the more if you tell him. PLEASE TELL HIM BEFORE. If hes a decent guy he will see as a massive plus point, not a bad thing.
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reader, sillzsarah +, writes (15 July 2007):
 hey there is nothink to be worried about girl! all you hve to do it go bye the flow let him make the first step and eventualy u will get used to it and just find it as a natural thing... but at if any point u feel uncumfterbal with what he is doing tell him to stop! IF HE LOVES YOU ANOTH AND DONT JUST WANT U FOR SEX HE WILL UNDERSTAND! or you could always just tell him...most boys love to here that their gf is a virgin and they r not because then they get to show of etc just remember hun play safe and always use a comdom (atleast untill ure ready to handle a little gremlin :-) ) xxx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (14 July 2007):
 I think you should sit down and tell him that you are a virgin and that you are ready to take things with him up a level. He'll know then to be a little bit more gentle with you first time, and that you wont know what you are doing due to it being you're first time.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Definately you should tell him as most guys that i have spoken to absolutely love the idea of their girlfriend being a virgin.
If he is that gentlemanly he will really look after you and respect you.
Take care.xx.
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reader, JessAgonyAunt +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Hey, yes i think you should tell him, if you do then you can save yourself a lot of embarssement, i'm sure if his a nice guy then he will be very understanding about it, go for it girl!!!good luck babejess xxxx
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