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He is begging me to stay with him and tells me he loves me and won't ever cheat on me again... should I believe him?

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Question - (14 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend has a long history on cheating on his girlfriends, and has never stayed faithful to anyone in his life. It took me a long time to agree to start our relationship, just because I couldn't trust him. He promised me he had changed, and that he could never do it to me. Then the texts started coming "She isn't worth it... why can't you be with me instead" and he refused to stop texting back. Then he started lying about time spent with this girl - I saw them walking home from a club together once after we had argued... he told me I was paranoid. I later found out the truth.

Now we have broken up again from Uni, and are facing 3 months apart. One week into it, he tells me he's really really sorry, but he's kissed another girl... another one who had been texting him for a while and I had been wary of, but he insisted they were just friends. He was drunk, and he said it lasted a second. I dont believe him. He's going to Magaluf next week and I'm beside myself... but all the way through it, he is begging me to stay with him and telling me he loves me and won't ever let anything like this happen again... should I believe him? I love him so much, and can't bear to be back at Uni without him next year... seeing him with another girl knowing I'd got rid of him would be too much for me.

Please help

x

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A female reader, jewel1957 United States +, writes (14 July 2007):

Girl, I heard that from my husband a dozen times already!

He will never do it again! But, just last a couple weeks ago. I caught his ICQ telling his "Puta" what day and time of the

day he will be home so that that they can be online together! Because they miss each other very much already, when I came to find out that they are online almost

everyday! Girl, he's just your boyfriend. You will find somebody that will deserved you better:) And my husband

doesn't deserved me too, and I'm working something in progress for myself.

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A female reader, justice_123 United States +, writes (14 July 2007):

drop him cause you could be next download this song by marques houston called cheated and thats what your relationship will be like so find somebody else he is not the one i've dated someone just like that so trust me!

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