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writes:Sorry it's so long but I hope there's someone out there that's willing to read this and answer it for me!My boyfriend and I have been together for a Year and 3 months. Well, a week before our one year anniversary, he broke up with me and said it was because we were kinda arguing a lot, which was true but it was only for the past few weeks before he broke up with me and it was because, I was seeing him 3-5 times a week and I think we seen TOO much of each other. Well, we got back together after 2 and a half weeks, I was heartbroken because I trusted him with everything I had and really never expected anything like that from him. He's an amazing guy and I love him with all my heart. I was happy when we got back together, it took me a couple weeks to get things back to normal but I was happy. He told me he would never ever leave me again and promised to be with me forever. The day before Christmas Eve, he purposed to me and said He loved me, and wanted to marry me one day when we're ready. I trust him 110%, I really do. I don't want it to sound like I don't. I mean, part of loving someone is trusting them right? Well I trust him not to do it again. I have worried since then, that he might do it again, and with all the "What if.." questions, he knows I used to worry, I still do sometimes and he gets very upset over it because he tells me I have nothing to worry about. I want to know, how can I stop worrying so much? I've always been a person who worries about everything, paranoid about things all the time. I really want to know how to just stop worrying about things and really focus on being happy that I'm with him and that he does want to be with me for the rest of our lives. So really, can anyone tell me how I can stop worrying so much about things and just focus on being with him, and being happy with him?(Trust me, I am happy, I just can never focus on it.)
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reader, JimmyLove +, writes (15 January 2010):
You should just think to myself "do i really love him?" or "Since we're fighting now how will it be when were married?"
most of all just do what you wanna do! Just make sure you want to do it 1st. Also, just to throw something in if i read it right its only been a year, make sure your ready
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