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writes: Sometimes I feel like I'm competing with my bf when it comes to different things like who works more or who does the most exercise or who has to go through the hardest time...as dumb as it may sound, I can't help but feel like I have to one-up him on everything, and I don't know how to stop doing it and not feel like I have to compete with him--any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, beenthere +, writes (12 December 2005):
there must be a reason for this. is it because you feel you do more and he expects too much from you? that's normally the case in this situation. tell him how you feel. it may be psychological. something from your childhood. do you have brothers/sisters who you always felt were better than you? counselling may help
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